Dear Thelma
I’m 37 years old and now have been married for 10 years. My better half is years that are many than me personally. We now have a daughter that is eight-year-old.
I knew that he was active on online dating sites and was chatting with numerous girls when I met my husband. But he promised he’d stop as we got hitched. I became okay with this.
But 12 months into our wedding, we realised he had been a lot more earnestly communicating with girls and pictures that are sharing. Once I discovered and confronted him about this, he stated he had been simply chatting and never fulfilling these females really, so just why ended up being we making a large fuss. We told him We would not tolerate that, in which he once once again promised to cease.
All ended up being well until recently, whenever I discovered at it again out he has been. Now, he could be telling these females he is separated from his wife that he has a baby girl whom he loves very much but. We also learned I think are weird porn sites that he has been visiting what.
We have quit hope I can’t take it any longer that he will ever stop and. I understand for a few people, it might appear to be a benign thing. They may ask why i will be overreacting. However the method he writes to the one woman on the internet and how he could be often so cold with me is just for the sake of being married and for someone to take care of him and the house towards me at home makes me wonder if the only reason he is sticking.
We scarcely talk anymore in which he claims he could be constantly busy. I just don’t know who else to speak with about that.
Please Thelma, help me to.